You Can't Say That!

Today is March 10, 2021. The president is Biden, covid is still around, and liberalism is at an all time high. Normally I wouldn't care. I would continue living my life how I feel is best and let others worry about themselves. I mean, that's how it should be! However, that is no longer a reality! With covid, things were drastically changed because we could no longer shop (except groceries), go out to eat, or hang with friends (well, we weren't suppose to but we didn't listen to that one). If we went grocery shopping, we had to wear a mask and stay away from everyone. I had no problem with staying away from people because well, people suck. But wearing a mask? Yeah I had issues. Things are finally opening up more but nothing looks the same anymore which saddens me and breaks my heart. At the end of 2020, we voted for a new president who is definitely more on the liberal side. We are probably doomed but wasn't gonna stop me from continuing to live my life how I want. And then the cancel culture came out in swarms telling me what I can and can not do, say, watch, wear, feel, you name it, they had a reason it couldn't happen. For instance, Gina Carano who played a character in Disney's Mandalorian, posted an insensitive tweet that supposedly likened Hitler to things going on now that got people all upset (probably because it was true but we don't talk about that) and was fired for it but the head honcho of Disney posted a tweet that #MAGAkids should be sent to the wood chipper. That wasn't offensive at all. Totally ok. And there is the song Baby It's Cold Outside which is a horrible rape song and how dare we encourage the song to be played! Who cares that it was back in the 40's and things were different then, it's a horrible song. Change the lyrics or get rid of it. But we can listen to Cardi B's WAP with 0 complaints. It's totally appropriate too! Here's some lyrics for ya. 

"Beat it up, nigga, catch a charge. Extra large and extra hard. Put this pussy right in your face. Swipe your nose like a credit card. Hop on top, I wanna ride. I do a kegel while it's inside. Spit in my mouth, look in my eyes. This pussy is wet, come take a dive. Tie me up like I'm surprised. Let's role play, I'll wear a disguise. I want you to park that big Mack truck. Right in this little garage. Make it cream, make me scream. Out in public, make a scene. I don't cook, I don't clean. But let me tell you how I got this ring."

Totally appropriate. So much better than a man wanting a woman to say because the snow is bad on the ground......seriously?!  This is what we want our children to listen to?! This is the 'role model' we want for our kids?! Our GIRLS?! Oh, right sorry. We aren't allowed to call them that either.....Pelosi actually tried to get gendered names thrown out (then used them all like a week later cause it doesn't apply to her). As in it's not mom, dad, brother, sister, grandpa, grandma and so on. It's grandparent, parent, sibling, child. I don't have 2 daughters and one 1, I have 3 children. If I say I have 2 daughters and 1 son (cause you know, that's what they are), I am offending someone, leaving someone out, hurting someones feelings. My life is apparently not my life. I supposedly can't decide what is best for my family. Instead, the world has decided they are better at know what is best for my family then me and now has things we have to follow so we don't hurt or offend anyone. However, the world hasn't learned the biggest thing that will stop them in their tracks. I am the one who makes the decisions and no one else.

You haven't met me but you have probably met people like me. We are considered the 'conspiracy theorist' who will not change because someone might be offended. We just celebrated International Women's day. A day that celebrates women and how far we have come only we aren't moving forward anymore. We are moving backwards. Because transgender is a thing now, we have to bow down to their needs. Their wants. Their desires. Whether we agree or not. And there is no way to claim anything you want without offending them. I mean, you can't claim you are a mom cause that will offend them since they are transgendered. They went so far as to say that breastfeeding (the word) is no longer allowed since it will offend those who have decided they are now a man and can still feed their child. So we now must call is chest feeding......Do people not understand that not only do men have BREASTs but they can also get BREAST cancer. Why would we change it?! And why do I, who is FEMALE and have BREASTS change anything about who I am and what I do?! Because someone else is offended?? I am not telling them to live THEIR life MY way, but they are telling me to live MY life THEIR way cause if I don't, it offensive and now I am a horrible person....WHAT?! How about being told I can't claim mom, wife, daughter, sister is offensive to me?! Do MY feelings now count?! Seriously?! Sorry but no. You want me to respect that you have changed 'sides' and call you they or man or it or whatever it is now we are "suppose" to say, then you have to show the SAME respect to me. You can be whatever you want. So can I. And I will shout it to the rooftop! I will say it loud AND proud! And I will NOT be silenced because YOU might be offended by MY gender.....get over it. Move on. I don't cater to you. This is MY life, MY family, MY CHOICE. Respect it or don't, I really don't care but stop expecting me to change because you have decided I have to. I will refer to you as you would like, but you will do the same for me. Period. End of story. That's how it works. 

I am a female. I have boobs and a vagina. I am proud of who I am and I will NOT be silenced. I am a WIFE, MOTHER, SISTER, DAUGHTER, GRANDDAUGHTER, AUNT, SISTER IN LAW, DAUGHTER IN LAW, who BREASTfed all my children. I have accomplished a lot in my life as a single mother and that has helped shape who I am today. You will not rob me of my identity ever. I AM WOMAN and I CAN say what I want!